As a general rule, guys strongly resist going to any kind of counseling, thinking it’s a sign of wees2askn30;or feeling that nobody can really tell them anything new about relationships. The truth is, everybody can use some counseling, and every couple can use counseling, no matter how strong their relationship may be. And yes, counseling can save marriages. And save lives. And save relationships. And save families. I’m a counselor. I’ve seen it happen.